“I used to think that I couldn't set boundaries because I didn't love myself, but lack of self-love had nothing to do with it. The truth is I ALSO love the people in my life. Setting boundaries was difficult because I didn't want to disappoint my children or my loved ones. It's not that I didn't love myself, it's that I love them too, and especially as a mother, sometimes you sacrifice what you want in the moment so that your kids can get what they want. It wasn't until I learned why that way of doing things was teaching them the wrong values that I started being more comfortable about setting boundaries and ultimately, feeling GOOD about it. Thank you, Tree! Your boundaries course opened my eyes to not only how to love and honor myself more, but also how to be a better mother and person to love and honor my loved ones more."
Rhoda W.